Friday, February 23, 2007

Connectivity

Since connectivity is the sharing of reality, one must understand reality before one can understand connectivity. Reality is how we define the truth as our life unfolds. The truth, however is determined by our perception. This is why many eye witnesses will have different version of an event. Perception, you see is based on previous experiences. Your mind automatically fills in gaps based on these previous experiences whether or not it actually happened. To better grasp this concept, think back on the last time you saw someone that you thought you knew and it turned out to be someone else. Your mind wants to make sense of what it is percieving and in doing so projects previous experiences. To summarize, connectivity is the sharing of reality. Reality comes from our perception of truth. Perception is the sum of our experiences. Therefore, connectivity is the sharing of our experiences with another person. As your relationship with another person grows, the more experiences that are shared, the greater the likelyhood the two of you will have the same mental projections of previous experiences. This is why a couple can know at times each other's thoughts or complete their sentences. A couple with this kind of insight of each other are involved in a very deep relationship that typically takes a very long time to aquire. However, connectivity is present at all stages of a relationship even from the first time you meet.

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